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Insight Even without hormones, you can make a real difference

Even without hormones, the steps you can take right now, your clothes, your hair, your name, your pronouns, and the way you present yourself to the world, can…

Insight Believing your child means the absolute world

You're doing a fantastic job. Just believing and supporting your child means the absolute world to them. Parental acceptance is one of the most powerful…

Insight Misgendering, deadnaming and everyday disrespect

Misgendering means using the wrong pronouns or gender for someone, and deadnaming means using the name they were given at birth after they have asked you to…

Insight Share your trans joy this World Laughter Day

World Laughter Day. Share with me your stories about trans people, about trans healthcare, about trans beautiful lives, and how they made you laugh with joy.…

Insight Trans rights are the defining battle of our time

Trans rights are the defining civil rights struggle of our generation, as race equality was in the 1960s and gay rights were in the decades that followed. I…

Insight What will they put on my death certificate?

Without a Gender Recognition Certificate, a death certificate in England and Wales will generally record the gender on the birth certificate rather than a…

Insight Just listen to yourself

Listen to yourself. Listen to how you feel, what lands right when someone uses a particular name or pronoun, what feels good in the mirror, what clothes feel…

Insight Dehumanising language about trans people at work

When workplace materials use dehumanising language about trans people, the right move is to act now rather than wait. Document the specific language, raise it…

Insight Treating trans patients in NHS hospitals: what to know

Trans patients in NHS hospitals are protected under the Equality Act 2010 through the characteristic of gender reassignment, and that includes the right to…

Insight Trans people in prison: what are their rights?

Trans people in prison have legal rights to dignity, safety, and protection from discrimination. The Equality Act 2010 protects them through the characteristic…

Insight The real harm of transphobia: mental health and suicide

The harm caused by transphobia is not abstract. It manifests in anxiety, depression, self-harm, and suicide attempts, disproportionately and consistently,…

Insight We All Have a Place in This World

It's time to really understand the beauty of diversity, the meaning of equality, and how to include everyone so that we all have a place in this world.…

Insight Join Me on the Right Side of History

Trans people have always existed, across cultures and throughout recorded history. The only question each generation faces is how they are treated. The…

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Real Lives What is it like to come out at work?

Maya spent the whole summer rehearsing a two-minute conversation with her headteacher, then burst out laughing halfway through because her hands would not stop…

Real Lives Coming out as transgender at work, after twenty years

Rachel rehearsed the worst for months before she told the firm she had worked at for twenty-two years, and then a junior colleague simply offered to make her a…

Real Lives Transitioning as a trans man after raising your family

Otto raised three children as their mother before coming out as a trans man in his sixties, and now his grown children are learning what it means to have a dad.

Real Lives Growing old as a trans woman in a care home

Rosa spent her eighties being called the wrong name by carers who did not know her story, until her daughter taped a photo and a note to the door so every…

Real Lives When a seven-year-old leads and the adults follow

Freya, aged seven, quietly knew who she was. Her class teacher listened, changed the register, and a withdrawn child came alight.

Real Lives Being trans and disabled: navigating two systems

A young wheelchair user and their carer find that gender services and disability services each act as if the other does not exist, until one small act of…

Real Lives Explaining being non-binary to parents who don't get it

Jay came home from university to tell their parents they were non-binary, sat through the most awkward dinner of their life, and waited six months for a…

Real Lives What the wait for trans healthcare does to a teenager

Robyn was fourteen and terrified of her own voice breaking while she sat on a waiting list years long, and her mother Nadia refused to let her wait alone.

Real Lives Coming out as trans to your best friend

After twenty years of friendship, they finally said it out loud, and their best friend asked about pronouns and then what they were wearing on Friday.

Real Lives When a father shows up without saying a word

Mateo left a note on the kitchen table and went to bed not knowing what he would find in the morning; his father found the only answer that mattered.

Real Lives Coming out as a trans man at work

Kabir braced for rejection when he came out as a trans man to his watch, and found instead that the men he worked with simply got on with it.

Real Lives Social transition: becoming yourself before any medical step

A person who thought transition meant medicine and waiting lists discovers most of becoming themselves was already theirs to take.

Real Lives Why is my trans teen so unhappy?

Trans teens are often unhappy because they are carrying a truth about their gender they cannot yet say out loud. That gap takes up enormous energy. When they…

Real Lives When love outruns the words: a grandmother and Sora

Sora's grandmother never learned the vocabulary, but she knew her grandchild completely, and on a quiet December morning she relabelled the Christmas stocking…

Real Lives Co-parenting after coming out as trans

Two parents navigate pickups, birthdays, and new names after one comes out as trans, choosing their children's calm over their own grief.

Real Lives A mother fighting for her trans son at school

Eleni knew her son before any school policy did, and spent months quoting the school's own rules back to staff until he was simply allowed to be himself in…

Real Lives Can you really not identify as male or female?

Ro had spent years quietly performing a gender that never quite fit, until a Thursday afternoon conversation in a bookshop handed something back to them they…

Real Lives Coming out as non-binary at work

A non-binary person changes their workplace not with a speech but with an email signature and months of quiet, patient repetition.

Real Lives Non-binary at school: pronouns, uniform, and small wins

A non-binary teenager finds school survivable when a head of year bends the uniform rules just enough, proving that a little institutional flexibility can…

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