by Helen and Sammy
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One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.
Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.
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Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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Rachel had rehearsed the conversation for months, at three in the morning, alone. What she could not have rehearsed was how ordinary it would turn out to be.

A young wheelchair user and their carer find that gender services and disability services each act as if the other does not exist, until one small act of recognition changes…

Trans people can and do have biological children, though the routes vary considerably depending on timing and what medical steps have been taken. Sperm can be stored before…
Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →Farah, recently separated, sat her two young children down to say she was their mum now, and discovered that her six-year-old cared most about the bedtime voices.

Chidi moved between two communities that did not quite hold him, until he stopped looking for a place to belong and started building one.
A testosterone puberty reshapes the face, growing the brow ridge, nose, jaw angles and chin, and forming an Adam's apple in the neck. Oestrogen softens skin and moves fat into the…
Jay came home from university to tell their parents they were non-binary, sat through the most awkward dinner of their life, and waited six months for a birthday card.
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