The Truth About Gender Diversity

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Week of 12 October Open until Monday

Who do you turn to first when gender services let you down?

Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.

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Fighting the universe to make a surgery happen

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NHS gender clinic waiting times: the real picture

NHS gender clinics are legally required to see patients within 18 weeks of referral under the NHS Constitution. In practice, waiting times across UK gender services now run to…

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Texas Children's Hospital forced detransition: coercion and harm

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Trans joy: share your stories this World Laughter Day

Trans joy is real, ordinary, and worth celebrating. World Laughter Day is a chance to share the funny, tender, human stories from trans lives and trans healthcare that remind us…

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HRT shortages: do trans women really cause the supply gap?

Trans women do not cause HRT shortages. Estradiol supply problems stem from manufacturing disruptions, demand forecasting failures, and regulatory pressures across the…

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Minnesota trans athletes caught in a bylaw battle they didn't start

28 October 2026
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A Kansas pastor just said what most politicians are afraid to

28 October 2026
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Gender-affirming healthcare remains out of reach for many South Africans

28 October 2026
Real Life8 min read

You can start living as yourself before the letter arrives

She was two years into a waiting list when she realised she had already been waiting long enough.

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Erika Hilton: the Black trans politician reshaping Brazilian power

27 October 2026
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Coming out to elderly religious parents as a trans woman

Salma came out to her devout elderly parents in her forties, and discovered that love and faith can travel slowly and still arrive.

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2 arrested in killing of transgender woman Jayla McGee

25 October 2026
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Living behind a thick skin: life as a trans woman over 6ft tall

25 October 2026
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Do we need to protect women from trans women?

The claim that cis women need protection from trans women is not supported by evidence. Trans women and girls are statistically far more likely to be victims of violence, abuse,…

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The DCCC just ran its first anti-trans ad. Now what?

24 October 2026
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Genital exams for girls: what Washington's sports ban actually demands

24 October 2026
Quiz

What are my pronouns?

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.

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Real Life8 min read

Coming out as a trans man at work

Kabir braced for rejection when he came out as a trans man to his watch, and found instead that the men he worked with simply got on with it.

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Rowling calls trans activism 'elitist'. Let's look at who holds the power

22 October 2026
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Coming out as trans at work after twenty years

Rachel had rehearsed the conversation for months, at three in the morning, alone. What she could not have rehearsed was how ordinary it would turn out to be.

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Arizona puts trans people's rights to a ballot vote

21 October 2026
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Are transgender sports bans really about protecting women?

21 October 2026
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The Supreme Court is about to decide whether to ban trans women from women's sports

21 October 2026
Insight8 min read

How do you know if you are trans?

There is no test or label that tells you that you are trans. Many people recognise it because the gender recorded on their birth certificate does not fit who they are, and that…

Insight7 min read

Biological children and fertility for trans people

Trans people can and do have biological children, though the routes vary considerably depending on timing and what medical steps have been taken. Sperm can be stored before…

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A teenager just wanted to run. Adults made her a target.

20 October 2026
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Teacher barred after deadnaming pupil raises £46k for fresh appeal

20 October 2026
Real Life6 min read

What the first day on HRT actually feels like

Camila swallowed her first HRT tablet expecting transformation and felt nothing, then weeks later cried at a television advert and understood that the real milestone had already…

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