The Truth About Gender Diversity

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This week’s poll

One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.

Week of 12 October Open until Monday

Who do you turn to first when gender services let you down?

Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.

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Living behind a thick skin: life as a trans woman over 6ft tall

25 October 2026
Insight8 min read

Democrats are retreating on trans rights. What does it mean?

The Democratic Party is retreating on trans rights, with figures like Amy Acton publicly referring to trans girls as boys. This is not a fringe position but a deliberate,…

Insight6 min read

What puberty blockers actually do to the body

Insight7 min read

Texas Children's Hospital forced detransition: coercion and harm

Insight8 min read

HRT shortages: do trans women really cause the supply gap?

Trans women do not cause HRT shortages. Estradiol supply problems stem from manufacturing disruptions, demand forecasting failures, and regulatory pressures across the…

News

The DCCC just ran its first anti-trans ad. Now what?

24 October 2026
Quiz

Am I trans?

Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.

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Insight7 min read

Online hate against trans people is not acceptable

Online hate targeting trans people is not acceptable, full stop. The same standards we apply to racist or homophobic abuse must apply to transphobic comments, whether they appear…

News

Genital exams for girls: what Washington's sports ban actually demands

24 October 2026
News

Rowling calls trans activism 'elitist'. Let's look at who holds the power

22 October 2026
Real Life8 min read

An autistic man's question about trans care and who it's for

An autistic man who spent decades quietly finding himself asked Sammy whether the same child, born into today's world, would have been guided somewhere he was never meant to go.

News

Arizona puts trans people's rights to a ballot vote

21 October 2026
The tide goes out. It always comes back. 🌾
Inspiration

The tide goes out. It always comes back. 🌾

Real Life12 min read

When your autistic child comes out as trans: what helps

Her son came out as trans at thirteen, and everything the professionals said pointed in opposite directions. This is what actually helped.

News

Are transgender sports bans really about protecting women?

21 October 2026
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The Supreme Court is about to decide whether to ban trans women from women's sports

21 October 2026
News

A teenager just wanted to run. Adults made her a target.

20 October 2026
News

Teacher barred after deadnaming pupil raises £46k for fresh appeal

20 October 2026
Quiz

What are my pronouns?

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.

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Real Life11 min read

Coming out as trans at work after twenty years

Rachel had rehearsed the conversation for months, at three in the morning, alone. What she could not have rehearsed was how ordinary it would turn out to be.

News

The Voice singer Ciiara Nyx says music helped her navigate her trans identity

18 October 2026
Water finds its way through rock every single time. 🪨
Inspiration

Water finds its way through rock every single time. 🪨

Insight6 min read

Do we need to protect women from trans women?

The claim that cis women need protection from trans women is not supported by evidence. Trans women and girls are statistically far more likely to be victims of violence, abuse,…

Real Life7 min read

Finding chosen family when your parents reject you

Yara was seventeen when her home went cold, and what followed was not a loss but a discovery: that family can be chosen, and sometimes the people who choose you love you better…

News

Beyond depathologisation: Securing the right to health for trans communities

18 October 2026
News

I'm trans – why don't I belong on a women's ward?

17 October 2026
News

Trans protesters rush Harry Potter premiere red carpet

16 October 2026
Insight7 min read

What happens when trans people don't fit the system

When trans people don't fit the system, they carry the cost: mismatched documents, forms with no right box, care pathways built for one kind of story, and waits that run for…

News

Texas GOP leader says anti-trans ads are not working

16 October 2026
News

A girl just wanted to run. Then came the protest.

15 October 2026
Real Life8 min read

Coming out as a trans man at work

Kabir braced for rejection when he came out as a trans man to his watch, and found instead that the men he worked with simply got on with it.

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