The Truth About Gender Diversity

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This week’s poll

One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.

Week of 12 October Open until Monday

Who do you turn to first when gender services let you down?

Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.

14 people have answered so far

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Rowling calls trans activism 'elitist'. Let's look at who holds the power

22 October 2026
Insight8 min read

Democrats are retreating on trans rights. What does it mean?

The Democratic Party is retreating on trans rights, with figures like Amy Acton publicly referring to trans girls as boys. This is not a fringe position but a deliberate,…

Insight7 min read

Patha v the Crown: NZ challenge to the puberty blocker ban

Patha v the Crown is a New Zealand High Court legal challenge to the government's ban on puberty blockers for transgender youth. Brought by trans young people and their families,…

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Arizona puts trans people's rights to a ballot vote

21 October 2026
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Am I trans?

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Insight8 min read

How do you know if you are trans?

There is no test or label that tells you that you are trans. Many people recognise it because the gender recorded on their birth certificate does not fit who they are, and that…

News

Are transgender sports bans really about protecting women?

21 October 2026
News

The Supreme Court is about to decide whether to ban trans women from women's sports

21 October 2026
Real Life6 min read

What the first day on HRT actually feels like

Camila swallowed her first HRT tablet expecting transformation and felt nothing, then weeks later cried at a television advert and understood that the real milestone had already…

News

A teenager just wanted to run. Adults made her a target.

20 October 2026
Bent by every wind, still reaching for the light. 🏳️‍⚧️
Inspiration

Bent by every wind, still reaching for the light. 🏳️‍⚧️

Real Life11 min read

I always knew I was a boy. It took decades to live it.

He grew up in 1970s Britain reading C.S. Lewis by torchlight and longing to be one of the brothers, not the girl they all thought he was, and it would take four decades, two…

News

Teacher barred after deadnaming pupil raises £46k for fresh appeal

20 October 2026
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The Voice singer Ciiara Nyx says music helped her navigate her trans identity

18 October 2026
News

Beyond depathologisation: Securing the right to health for trans communities

18 October 2026
News

I'm trans – why don't I belong on a women's ward?

17 October 2026
Quiz

What are my pronouns?

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.

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Real Life10 min read

What it really feels like to debate your existence

Helen sat down to debate a woman who wanted her in prison, and found herself explaining, calmly, why trans people are allowed to exist.

News

Trans protesters rush Harry Potter premiere red carpet

16 October 2026
From up here, the borders don't show. 🌍
Inspiration

From up here, the borders don't show. 🌍

Real Life7 min read

What top surgery recovery actually feels like

Rohan dreaded the recovery weeks after top surgery, until his friend stayed for every boring, undramatic, necessary day of it.

News

Texas GOP leader says anti-trans ads are not working

16 October 2026
News

A girl just wanted to run. Then came the protest.

15 October 2026
News

Trump asks Supreme Court to back transgender military ban

15 October 2026
News

'Cyclone': the Hong Kong indie that kept Tony Leung awake

14 October 2026
News

Sam Forstag refuses to throw trans people under the bus

14 October 2026
Real Life6 min read

The small bodily changes of transition

A trans woman notices her skin is different, her scent has shifted, and the mirror is finally, tentatively, starting to show her the person she has always been.

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