The Truth About Gender Diversity

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This week’s poll

One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.

Week of 12 October Open until Monday

Who do you turn to first when gender services let you down?

Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.

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Arizona puts trans people's rights to a ballot vote

21 October 2026
Insight8 min read

Democrats are retreating on trans rights. What does it mean?

The Democratic Party is retreating on trans rights, with figures like Amy Acton publicly referring to trans girls as boys. This is not a fringe position but a deliberate,…

Insight7 min read

Patha v the Crown: NZ challenge to the puberty blocker ban

Patha v the Crown is a New Zealand High Court legal challenge to the government's ban on puberty blockers for transgender youth. Brought by trans young people and their families,…

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Are transgender sports bans really about protecting women?

21 October 2026
Quiz

Am I trans?

Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.

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Insight7 min read
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The Supreme Court is about to decide whether to ban trans women from women's sports

21 October 2026
News

A teenager just wanted to run. Adults made her a target.

20 October 2026
Real Life7 min read

When a sibling is learning to accept your transition

An older sister quietly grieves the little brother she never quite had, while learning, clumsily and tenderly, to know the sister standing in front of her.

News

Teacher barred after deadnaming pupil raises £46k for fresh appeal

20 October 2026
If only identity could be as simple as a perfectly ripe avocado on a fancy plate 🥑
Inspiration

If only identity could be as simple as a perfectly ripe avocado on a fancy plate 🥑

Real Life7 min read

What top surgery recovery actually feels like

Rohan dreaded the recovery weeks after top surgery, until his friend stayed for every boring, undramatic, necessary day of it.

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The Voice singer Ciiara Nyx says music helped her navigate her trans identity

18 October 2026
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Beyond depathologisation: Securing the right to health for trans communities

18 October 2026
Insight6 min read

Do we need to protect women from trans women?

The claim that cis women need protection from trans women is not supported by evidence. Trans women and girls are statistically far more likely to be victims of violence, abuse,…

News

I'm trans – why don't I belong on a women's ward?

17 October 2026
News

Trans protesters rush Harry Potter premiere red carpet

16 October 2026
Quiz

What are my pronouns?

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.

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Real Life10 min read

What it really feels like to debate your existence

Helen sat down to debate a woman who wanted her in prison, and found herself explaining, calmly, why trans people are allowed to exist.

News

Texas GOP leader says anti-trans ads are not working

16 October 2026
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Inspiration

Every path to yourself looks long until you're walking it. 🏳️‍⚧️

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What happens to the prostate after vaginoplasty

Rachel had a simple, sensible question about her own body after vaginoplasty, and the answer turned out to be much more reassuring than she had expected.

News

A girl just wanted to run. Then came the protest.

15 October 2026
News

'Cyclone': the Hong Kong indie that kept Tony Leung awake

14 October 2026
News

Sam Forstag refuses to throw trans people under the bus

14 October 2026
News

He murdered a woman. A court overturned his conviction because the victim was trans.

14 October 2026
News

Daughters of the American Revolution axes chapter that challenged transgender membership

13 October 2026
Real Life8 min read

I wish my paediatrician understood me

A young person goes to their paediatrician hoping finally to be understood, and leaves with their identity questioned and their care delayed.

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