by Helen and Sammy
Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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A young wheelchair user and their carer find that gender services and disability services each act as if the other does not exist, until one small act of recognition changes everyt…

Her daughter already knew who she was. What her mum needed was someone to tell her that loving her child completely, and without condition, was exactly the right thing to do.

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →Margaret was a grandfather of sixty-three, sitting in a kitchen at two in the morning with the screen brightness turned down, when she finally pressed the checkout button on her fi…

Mei spent months relearning her voice in secret, until one Tuesday phone call made her realise the smallest reclamations land the hardest.

Anaya spent her thirties explaining away a feeling she could never quite name, until a colleague's transition gave it one.
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