by Helen and Sammy

Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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Coming into a gender identity takes a long time. There is years of soul-searching, self-questioning, research, and quiet planning before any visible step, because this world is not…
Trans people in prison have legal rights to dignity, safety, and protection from discrimination. The Equality Act 2010 protects them through the characteristic of gender reassignme…


Transitioning at 62 is absolutely possible, and people do it successfully all the time. I've been told about someone transitioning in Australia in under four months at 62, and that…
A trans woman learns to navigate the daily calculation of which door to push open, and discovers that the law and lived reality rarely feel the same.


Listen to yourself. Listen to how you feel, what lands right when someone uses a particular name or pronoun, what feels good in the mirror, what clothes feel like yours. Try things…
Glamour UK's Women of the Year cover featuring nine trans women won Cover of the Year at the Professional Publishing Association Awards in June 2026. The cover, released in October…
Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →Mara spent a decade finding her way without a guide, then became one for a frightened teenager, and discovered that teaching someone else the map changed her too.

Being a woman is an innate sense of identity, not a biological checklist. Defining womanhood through anatomy excludes many cisgender women too: those born without a uterus, those w…
Starting university far from home, they introduced themselves by their real name for the first time and discovered that who they were had been waiting all along.

What is a woman anyway? It's the question everyone suddenly thinks they're philosophers about. So let's try it their way. Is it chromosomes, makeup, dresses? Here's a thought. A wo…
World Laughter Day. Share with me your stories about trans people, about trans healthcare, about trans beautiful lives, and how they made you laugh with joy. The in-jokes, the tend…


Otto raised three children as their mother before coming out as a trans man in his sixties, and now his grown children are learning what it means to have a dad.
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