by Helen and Sammy

Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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Freya, aged seven, quietly knew who she was. Her class teacher listened, changed the register, and a withdrawn child came alight.

Diane had known since the eighties, buried it through addiction and a rebuilt life, and then told her wife the truth over dinner on a Tuesday, and everything shifted.


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Try the quiz →Anaya spent her thirties explaining away a feeling she could never quite name, until a colleague's transition gave it one.

A person who thought transition meant medicine and waiting lists discovers most of becoming themselves was already theirs to take.

A young wheelchair user and their carer find that gender services and disability services each act as if the other does not exist, until one small act of recognition changes everyt…
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