by Helen and Sammy

Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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Rohan dreaded the recovery weeks after top surgery, until his friend stayed for every boring, undramatic, necessary day of it.

Theo paused his testosterone, carried his son through nine months of forms that kept calling him mother, and held the baby who would only ever know him as Dad.


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Try the quiz →Bea went silent the night her eight-year-old said she was a girl, and spent the morning afraid she had broken everything, until she sat back down on the bed.
Kabir braced for rejection when he came out as a trans man to his watch, and found instead that the men he worked with simply got on with it.


Maya spent the whole summer rehearsing a two-minute conversation with her headteacher, then burst out laughing halfway through because her hands would not stop shaking.
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