by Helen and Sammy
Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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She was two years into a waiting list when she realised she had already been waiting long enough.

Carol grieved the husband she thought she had married, felt guilty for grieving at all, and spent a year working out whether she was still in love with Ruth.


Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →After twenty years of friendship, they finally said it out loud, and their best friend asked about pronouns and then what they were wearing on Friday.

Yara was seventeen when her home went cold, and what followed was not a loss but a discovery: that family can be chosen, and sometimes the people who choose you love you better tha…
A trans woman rehearses the end of her marriage before she has spoken a word, and discovers that telling the truth is not the same as ending the love.
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