The Truth About Gender Diversity

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This week’s poll

One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.

Week of 12 October Open until Monday

Who do you turn to first when gender services let you down?

Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.

40 people have answered so far

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Marine Corps ends extensions amid scrutiny of transgender separation cases

3 November 2026
Insight7 min read

Puberty blockers: approved for some, banned for others

Insight8 min read

Detransition, regret, and how the stories get weaponised

Detransition means returning to living in the gender assigned at birth, but the reasons are varied and often misrepresented. Some people detransition because of social pressure,…

News

HHS rule strips disability protection from gender dysphoria

3 November 2026
Quiz

Am I trans?

Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.

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Insight6 min read

What testosterone does to your face, and what surgery can do

A testosterone puberty reshapes the face, growing the brow ridge, nose, jaw angles and chin, and forming an Adam's apple in the neck. Oestrogen softens skin and moves fat into the…

News

One loss, one trans athlete, one ballot initiative: let's be honest

2 November 2026
News

US ballot measures that will reshape trans lives in real time

31 October 2026
Real Life11 min read

I always knew I was a boy. It took decades to live it.

He grew up in 1970s Britain reading C.S. Lewis by torchlight and longing to be one of the brothers, not the girl they all thought he was, and it would take four decades, two…

News

YouGov poll: voters trust Democrats on trans rights by 29 points

31 October 2026
From up here, the borders don't show. 🌍
Inspiration

From up here, the borders don't show. 🌍

Real Life6 min read

Being trans and disabled: navigating two systems

A young wheelchair user and their carer find that gender services and disability services each act as if the other does not exist, until one small act of recognition changes…

News

Transgender teenager sues Essentia Health after 5 years of care abruptly ends

30 October 2026
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Fighting the universe to make a surgery happen

29 October 2026
Insight7 min read

Biological children and fertility for trans people

Trans people can and do have biological children, though the routes vary considerably depending on timing and what medical steps have been taken. Sperm can be stored before…

Insight6 min read

Do we need to protect women from trans women?

The claim that cis women need protection from trans women is not supported by evidence. Trans women and girls are statistically far more likely to be victims of violence, abuse,…

News

Minnesota trans athletes caught in a bylaw battle they didn't start

28 October 2026
News

A Kansas pastor just said what most politicians are afraid to

28 October 2026
Quiz

What are my pronouns?

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.

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Real Life7 min read

When a father chose his daughter over his certainty

Darya's father said the wrong thing first, but chose his daughter over his certainty and became the man she needed him to be.

News

Gender-affirming healthcare remains out of reach for many South Africans

28 October 2026
Keep growing, even when the sky feels very big and you feel very small. 🏳️‍⚧️
Inspiration

Keep growing, even when the sky feels very big and you feel very small. 🏳️‍⚧️

Insight7 min read

Why should society change for a small number of people?

Society makes room for small groups all the time, through step-free access, braille and sign language, because everybody matters whatever the numbers. Including trans people is…

Real Life7 min read

Being trans and a person of colour

Chidi moved between two communities that did not quite hold him, until he stopped looking for a place to belong and started building one.

News

Erika Hilton: the Black trans politician reshaping Brazilian power

27 October 2026
News

2 arrested in killing of transgender woman Jayla McGee

25 October 2026
News

Living behind a thick skin: life as a trans woman over 6ft tall

25 October 2026
News

The DCCC just ran its first anti-trans ad. Now what?

24 October 2026
News

Genital exams for girls: what Washington's sports ban actually demands

24 October 2026
Real Life5 min read

What is it like to come out at work?

Maya spent the whole summer rehearsing a two-minute conversation with her headteacher, then burst out laughing halfway through because her hands would not stop shaking.

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