by Helen and Sammy
The Tavistock's GIDS service had genuine structural failures, including years-long waiting times and insufficient mental health provision. These deserved scrutiny. But the Cass Rev…

Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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After twenty years of friendship, they finally said it out loud, and their best friend asked about pronouns and then what they were wearing on Friday.

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →A person who thought transition meant medicine and waiting lists discovers most of becoming themselves was already theirs to take.

A trans woman and her partner map a route to parenthood through frozen sperm, clinic appointments, and paperwork, learning that trans families are made with as much intention and l…

Theo paused his testosterone, carried his son through nine months of forms that kept calling him mother, and held the baby who would only ever know him as Dad.
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