by Helen and Sammy
Nothing is off the cards.
One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.
Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.
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Previous weeks and their results →
The Democratic Party is retreating on trans rights, with figures like Amy Acton publicly referring to trans girls as boys. This is not a fringe position but a deliberate,…
Patha v the Crown is a New Zealand High Court legal challenge to the government's ban on puberty blockers for transgender youth. Brought by trans young people and their families,…
Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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An older sister quietly grieves the little brother she never quite had, while learning, clumsily and tenderly, to know the sister standing in front of her.

Rohan dreaded the recovery weeks after top surgery, until his friend stayed for every boring, undramatic, necessary day of it.

The claim that cis women need protection from trans women is not supported by evidence. Trans women and girls are statistically far more likely to be victims of violence, abuse,…
Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →Helen sat down to debate a woman who wanted her in prison, and found herself explaining, calmly, why trans people are allowed to exist.

Rachel had a simple, sensible question about her own body after vaginoplasty, and the answer turned out to be much more reassuring than she had expected.
A young person goes to their paediatrician hoping finally to be understood, and leaves with their identity questioned and their care delayed.
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