by Helen and Sammy
Nothing is off the cards.
One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.
Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.
48 people have answered so far
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Koa had no crisis to report on a Saturday morning, just coffee, a friend who said their name right, and a body that finally felt like their own.
Detransition means returning to living in the gender assigned at birth, but the reasons are varied and often misrepresented. Some people detransition because of social pressure,…
Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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Yes. Young people can consent to gender-affirming care in the same way they consent to any other medical treatment, by showing they understand what it will do, what happens if…
Society makes room for small groups all the time, through step-free access, braille and sign language, because everybody matters whatever the numbers. Including trans people is…
Noor spent three days dreading her hip operation, not the surgery but the name on her wristband, until a night nurse asked her one quiet question.

The claim that cis women need protection from trans women is not supported by evidence. Trans women and girls are statistically far more likely to be victims of violence, abuse,…
Her son came out as trans at thirteen, and everything the professionals said pointed in opposite directions. This is what actually helped.

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →Margaret was a grandfather of sixty-three, sitting in a kitchen at two in the morning with the screen brightness turned down, when she finally pressed the checkout button on her…

Dani stood at her front door for eleven minutes before she finally stepped outside as herself, and what she found on the other side was sunshine, a dog barking, and a world that…
Trans people can and do have biological children, though the routes vary considerably depending on timing and what medical steps have been taken. Sperm can be stored before…
Salma came out to her devout elderly parents in her forties, and discovered that love and faith can travel slowly and still arrive.
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