The Truth About Gender Diversity

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This week’s poll

One question a week, answered by the people it is actually about.

Week of 12 October Open until Monday

Who do you turn to first when gender services let you down?

Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.

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Fighting the universe to make a surgery happen

29 October 2026
Insight8 min read

Democrats are retreating on trans rights. What does it mean?

The Democratic Party is retreating on trans rights, with figures like Amy Acton publicly referring to trans girls as boys. This is not a fringe position but a deliberate,…

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What puberty blockers actually do to the body

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Informed consent HRT: what it means and how to access it

Informed consent HRT means a doctor prescribes gender-affirming hormones once you understand and consent to the risks and benefits, without gatekeeping through psychological…

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Minnesota trans athletes caught in a bylaw battle they didn't start

28 October 2026
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A Kansas pastor just said what most politicians are afraid to

28 October 2026
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Gender-affirming healthcare remains out of reach for many South Africans

28 October 2026
Real Life8 min read

What the NHS wait for trans healthcare does to a teenager

Robyn was eleven when she was referred to the NHS gender service, and fourteen when she realised she might be seventeen before anyone saw her.

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Erika Hilton: the Black trans politician reshaping Brazilian power

27 October 2026
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Inspiration

Every road bends. That's the interesting part. 🛤️

Insight7 min read

Biological children and fertility for trans people

Trans people can and do have biological children, though the routes vary considerably depending on timing and what medical steps have been taken. Sperm can be stored before…

Real Life9 min read

She already knows who she is. Her mum just needed to hear that was enough.

Her daughter already knew who she was. What her mum needed was someone to tell her that loving her child completely, and without condition, was exactly the right thing to do.

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2 arrested in killing of transgender woman Jayla McGee

25 October 2026
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Living behind a thick skin: life as a trans woman over 6ft tall

25 October 2026
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The DCCC just ran its first anti-trans ad. Now what?

24 October 2026
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Genital exams for girls: what Washington's sports ban actually demands

24 October 2026
Quiz

What are my pronouns?

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.

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Real Life8 min read

An autistic man's question about trans care and who it's for

An autistic man who spent decades quietly finding himself asked Sammy whether the same child, born into today's world, would have been guided somewhere he was never meant to go.

News

Rowling calls trans activism 'elitist'. Let's look at who holds the power

22 October 2026
That hour between sunset and dark, when everything goes quiet and the light decides to show off. 🌙
Inspiration

That hour between sunset and dark, when everything goes quiet and the light decides to show off. 🌙

Real Life8 min read

I wish my paediatrician understood me

A young person goes to their paediatrician hoping finally to be understood, and leaves with their identity questioned and their care delayed.

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Arizona puts trans people's rights to a ballot vote

21 October 2026
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Are transgender sports bans really about protecting women?

21 October 2026
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The Supreme Court is about to decide whether to ban trans women from women's sports

21 October 2026
Insight7 min read

Why should society change for a small number of people?

Society makes room for small groups all the time, through step-free access, braille and sign language, because everybody matters whatever the numbers. Including trans people is…

News

A teenager just wanted to run. Adults made her a target.

20 October 2026
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Teacher barred after deadnaming pupil raises £46k for fresh appeal

20 October 2026
Real Life11 min read

Coming out as trans at work after twenty years

Rachel had rehearsed the conversation for months, at three in the morning, alone. What she could not have rehearsed was how ordinary it would turn out to be.

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