by Helen and Sammy
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Thank you. I am keeping the answers to myself until Monday morning, so that nobody's vote nudges anybody else's. Come back then and I will show you the whole picture.
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Online hate targeting trans people is not acceptable, full stop. The same standards we apply to racist or homophobic abuse must apply to transphobic comments, whether they appear…
Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
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Kabir braced for rejection when he came out as a trans man to his watch, and found instead that the men he worked with simply got on with it.

Maya spent the whole summer rehearsing a two-minute conversation with her headteacher, then burst out laughing halfway through because her hands would not stop shaking.

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →A person who thought transition meant medicine and waiting lists discovers most of becoming themselves was already theirs to take.

A trans person orders a coffee, hears one word from a stranger, and finds the world has quietly rearranged itself around who they really are.
An older sister quietly grieves the little brother she never quite had, while learning, clumsily and tenderly, to know the sister standing in front of her.
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