




Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
Try the quiz →The best way to find the right surgeon for gender-affirming surgery is to ask people who have already had the procedure. Peer networks, online communities, and support groups hold …
Mara spent a decade finding her way without a guide, then became one for a frightened teenager, and discovered that teaching someone else the map changed her too.

Trans people have always existed, across cultures and throughout recorded history. The only question each generation faces is how they are treated. The historical record is clear: …
Counselling is genuinely helpful for trans people and for people who support them, but only when it is affirmative and supportive. Good counselling helps you navigate real challeng…
Marco had avoided swimming for a decade until top surgery gave him back something he hadn't dared name as lost.

The biggest message I'd give anyone navigating transition or any kind of identity work is this: plan carefully, hold the plan lightly, and don't be hard on yourself when things don…
A person who thought transition meant medicine and waiting lists discovers most of becoming themselves was already theirs to take.

Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →Non-binary people are entitled to the same quality of gender-affirming healthcare as anyone else, and international guidelines including the WPATH Standards of Care 8 and the Endoc…
Trans women are women, and the refusal to recognise them as such follows a well-documented historical pattern. Angela Y Davis has shown how Black women were once excluded from "rea…
A trans woman and her partner map a route to parenthood through frozen sperm, clinic appointments, and paperwork, learning that trans families are made with as much intention and l…

The harm caused by transphobia is not abstract. It manifests in anxiety, depression, self-harm, and suicide attempts, disproportionately and consistently, among trans and LGBTQ+ pe…
Rohan dreaded the recovery weeks after top surgery, until his friend stayed for every boring, undramatic, necessary day of it.
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