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Try the quiz →The real dangers women face are domestic abuse, sexual violence, street harassment, and coercive control, not trans people in bathrooms. Trans people make up roughly 0.5% of the UK…
Carol grieved the husband she thought she had married, felt guilty for grieving at all, and spent a year working out whether she was still in love with Ruth.

Trans people in prison have legal rights to dignity, safety, and protection from discrimination. The Equality Act 2010 protects them through the characteristic of gender reassignme…
Trans people are not responsible for the crimes of predatory men, and restricting gender-affirming care on that basis is scapegoating rather than safeguarding. Trans children have …
Maya spent the whole summer rehearsing a two-minute conversation with her headteacher, then burst out laughing halfway through because her hands would not stop shaking.

I'm Dr Helen Webberley, a doctor, a mum, and a gender specialist. Over the last ten years I've learned everything I can about gender identity and what it means to be transgender. I…
Mara spent a decade finding her way without a guide, then became one for a frightened teenager, and discovered that teaching someone else the map changed her too.
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Try the quiz →The harm caused by transphobia is not abstract. It manifests in anxiety, depression, self-harm, and suicide attempts, disproportionately and consistently, among trans and LGBTQ+ pe…
If you are looking for a neat biological checkbox, you have missed the point, and the century. The truth is simple: trans women are women, trans men are men, and non-binary identit…
Two parents who loved their child equally but not yet in the same direction: one ready, one frightened, and a marriage strained to its limit before they found their way to the same…

Testosterone causes red blood cells to become larger, denser, and more numerous, which is exactly what happens in any body running on testosterone. For trans men and transmasculine…
Yara was seventeen when her home went cold, and what followed was not a loss but a discovery: that family can be chosen, and sometimes the people who choose you love you better tha…

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