
Three quiet questions to help you listen to yourself.
Try the quiz →The long-term effects of testosterone are well understood. It drops your voice, grows facial and body hair, develops and broadens your muscles and skeleton, and gives you the same …
Bea went silent the night her eight-year-old said she was a girl, and spent the morning afraid she had broken everything, until she sat back down on the bed.

When workplace materials use dehumanising language about trans people, the right move is to act now rather than wait. Document the specific language, raise it formally in writing t…
Misgendering means using the wrong pronouns or gender for someone, and deadnaming means using the name they were given at birth after they have asked you to use a different one. Bo…
A trans person orders a coffee, hears one word from a stranger, and finds the world has quietly rearranged itself around who they really are.

The government's own Equality Impact Assessment warns that directing trans women away from women's services creates a disproportionate risk of violence and sexual assault, and incr…
Mateo left a note on the kitchen table and went to bed not knowing what he would find in the morning; his father found the only answer that mattered.
Try she, he and they on for size. Nothing fixed, no pressure.
Try the quiz →World Laughter Day. Share with me your stories about trans people, about trans healthcare, about trans beautiful lives, and how they made you laugh with joy. The in-jokes, the tend…
I'm Dr Helen Webberley. I'm a doctor, a mum, and a gender specialist, and for the last decade and more I've spent most of my waking hours learning everything I can about gender ide…
Margaret was a grandfather of sixty-three, sitting in a kitchen at two in the morning with the screen brightness turned down, when she finally pressed the checkout button on her fi…

Non-binary people are entitled to the same quality of gender-affirming healthcare as anyone else, and international guidelines including the WPATH Standards of Care 8 and the Endoc…
Anaya spent her thirties explaining away a feeling she could never quite name, until a colleague's transition gave it one.

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