Safeguarding and Child Protection Policy

Version: [0.1 draft] · Effective date: [to be set] · Next review: [within 12 months of adoption]

This is a working draft prepared as a starting point. It must be reviewed and adapted by someone with safeguarding and legal expertise, and checked against the law of the countries where the platform has a significant audience, before it is adopted or published. All items in square brackets need to be completed first. It does not constitute legal advice.

1. Purpose

This policy sets out our commitment to keeping children and adults at risk safe across everything we do, including the website, the newsletter, our social media channels, and the AI companion Sammy. It explains how concerns are recognised, how they are responded to, and who is responsible for acting on them.

We take safeguarding seriously because the work of this platform brings us into contact with people who may be vulnerable, including young people exploring their identity and people in distress. We want everyone who reaches us to be met with care, and to be guided quickly to the right help, wherever in the world they are.

2. Scope and the nature of this service

This policy applies to everyone who works on or contributes to the platform, including the founder, employees, contractors, and anyone acting on its behalf. It also governs the design and operation of the automated services, in particular the AI companion Sammy.

Our audience is international. People reach us from many countries, and the right route to help, and the relevant law, depend on where each person is. This policy is written to work globally rather than for any single country.

It is important to be clear about what this platform is and is not.

  • The platform provides information, education, advocacy, and supportive content about gender diversity. It offers a place to learn and to feel less alone.
  • It is not a medical, clinical, counselling, crisis, or emergency service, and it does not provide diagnosis, treatment, or therapy.
  • Sammy is an automated tool. They are not a counsellor, not a safeguarding professional, and not a substitute for a real person or for emergency help.
  • We generally cannot verify the identity, age, or location of the people who contact us, including through Sammy. We therefore design our services to be safe even when we do not know who we are speaking to.

3. Definitions

Safeguarding means protecting people from abuse, harm, and neglect, and acting to promote their welfare.

A child is anyone under the age of 18.

An adult at risk is an adult who may be unable to protect themselves from harm or abuse, for example because of illness, disability, or circumstances.

Abuse can take many forms, including physical, sexual, emotional or psychological abuse, neglect, financial abuse, and online or digital abuse such as grooming, exploitation, or exposure to harmful content.

A disclosure is when someone tells us, directly or indirectly, that they or another person are being harmed or are at risk.

4. Our principles

  • The welfare of the child or person at risk is the first consideration.
  • Safeguarding is everyone's responsibility, not only the Designated Safeguarding Lead.
  • We listen, we take concerns seriously, and we never dismiss them as someone testing the system.
  • We act promptly. Delay can leave someone in danger.
  • We do not investigate. We pass concerns to people who are trained and authorised to act on them.
  • We point people to the help that can reach them fastest, which is almost always local to where they are.

5. Roles and responsibilities

Designated Safeguarding Lead (DSL)

The DSL holds lead responsibility for safeguarding on the platform. The role is held within Helen's team. We do not publish individual names or contact details here.

Any concern spotted by Sammy, or reported to Sammy, is delivered to Helen's team through the platform's notification process and picked up by the DSL. Concerns reaching us by any other route, such as email, comments, or social media, are passed to the DSL in the same way.

The DSL is responsible for receiving safeguarding concerns, deciding what action to take, making referrals to external agencies where needed, keeping secure records, and making sure this policy is followed, understood, and reviewed.

In the DSL's absence, concerns are picked up by another senior member of the team.

Everyone working on the platform

Everyone who works on or contributes to the platform is expected to read this policy, to recognise when something may be a safeguarding concern, and to pass it to the DSL without delay. No one should attempt to investigate a concern themselves or promise to keep a disclosure secret.

6. Recognising abuse and concerns

Concerns may reach us in many ways: through a conversation with Sammy, by email, through comments or messages, or through our social media channels. A concern might be an explicit disclosure, or a quieter sign, such as a young person describing an unsafe home, secrecy being imposed on them, fear of an adult, sexualised contact, or thoughts of self-harm.

We do not need to be certain that abuse is happening before we act. A reasonable concern is enough to pass to the DSL.

7. The role of the AI companion (Sammy)

Sammy is configured to follow a child safety and safeguarding protocol that sits above all of their other instructions and applies in every country. In summary, Sammy is designed to:

  • Recognise when someone may be a child and respond with appropriate care and limits.
  • Stop exploring a topic the moment a safeguarding concern appears, rather than drawing out detail.
  • Avoid questioning or investigating a person about abuse.
  • Never reframe an adult's harmful behaviour towards a child as acceptable, and never encourage a child to keep secrets from a parent or carer.
  • Signpost clearly and immediately to local emergency services, helplines, and trusted adults, giving only resources they can be sure of and never inventing a number.
  • Be honest that they are an AI. Sammy does not claim to contact authorities themselves. A conversation that raises a safeguarding concern is delivered to Helen's team through the platform's notification process, and Sammy always makes clear that this is not a substitute for the person contacting local help directly.

Sammy's limits are real and must be understood. They are automated, they cannot guarantee that they will recognise every concern, they cannot verify what they are told, and they cannot take real-world action or contact anyone on a user's behalf. They are not monitored in real time, so they are not a route to emergency help. Anyone in danger must contact their local emergency services. The protocol Sammy follows is maintained as part of their configuration and is reviewed alongside this policy.

8. Responding to a disclosure or concern

If someone is in immediate danger

Direct them to their local emergency number without delay. Across the European Union this is 112. In the United Kingdom it is 999, in the United States and Canada 911, and in Australia 000. If the country is not known, the instruction is simply to call the local emergency number. Then inform the DSL.

Receiving a disclosure

If someone discloses harm to you, the following principles apply.

  1. Stay calm, listen, and take what they say seriously.
  2. Reassure them that it is not their fault and that they were right to speak.
  3. Do not promise to keep it secret. Explain gently that you may need to pass it on to keep them safe.
  4. Do not investigate, do not ask leading questions, and do not press for detail.
  5. Record what was said in the person's own words, as soon as possible afterwards, with the date and time.
  6. Pass the concern to the DSL the same day.

9. Recording and information sharing

Safeguarding records are factual, written promptly, stored securely, and kept confidential. They are handled in line with applicable data protection law, including the EU and UK General Data Protection Regulation and equivalent law in other relevant countries.

Information is shared only with those who need it in order to protect the person concerned. Confidentiality cannot be absolute where there is a risk of harm, and the duty to protect someone takes precedence over a wish to keep a matter private.

10. Reporting and notifying the relevant authority

On receiving a concern, the DSL assesses the level of risk and decides what action is needed. Where a referral is appropriate, the DSL notifies the relevant child protection or safeguarding authority for the area where the person lives, and records the decision and the reasons for it.

This policy does not name particular agencies. The right authority depends on the person's country, and naming a single country's services would be wrong for most of the people we reach. The DSL identifies the appropriate authority for the person's location and refers to it.

We are honest about the limits of this. We operate online and across borders, and we cannot always make a direct referral into another country's child protection system, nor can we act in real time. For that reason we always direct a person at risk first to the services that can respond fastest where they are, namely their local emergency number and their national child helpline. Our own escalation supports that. It does not replace it.

11. Online and digital safeguarding

Because we operate online, we cannot reliably verify a person's age, identity, or location. We therefore treat every interaction as though the person could be vulnerable, and we apply the same calm, careful response whether or not we suspect a conversation may be a test or made in bad faith. A suspected test is never treated as a reason to dismiss a concern.

We do not tolerate any sexual content involving a child. If we encounter material or behaviour that indicates a child is being abused or is at risk, we do not engage with it further, we preserve any relevant record, and we report it to the appropriate authorities for the relevant country.

12. Adults at risk

The same principles apply to adults at risk. Where we are concerned that an adult may be unable to protect themselves from harm, we respond with care, avoid investigating, signpost to appropriate local support, and pass the concern to the DSL, who decides whether a referral is needed and to which authority.

13. Allegations about people connected to the platform

Any allegation that someone working on or connected to the platform has harmed a child or adult at risk is taken seriously and reported to the DSL at once. If the allegation concerns the DSL, it is reported to another senior member of the team. The matter is referred to the appropriate authority in the relevant country.

14. Training and awareness

Everyone working on the platform is given a copy of this policy and is expected to understand it. The DSL undertakes appropriate safeguarding training and keeps it up to date. Safeguarding is included in the induction of anyone new who joins the work of the platform.

15. Review

This policy is reviewed at least once a year, and sooner if there is a safeguarding incident, a change in the law, or a significant change to how the platform or Sammy operates. Each version is dated and recorded.

16. Key contacts and resources

Safeguarding concerns raised on the platform, including anything Sammy spots or is told, are delivered to Helen's team through the platform's notification process and handled by the Designated Safeguarding Lead.

If you or a child is in immediate danger, call your local emergency number now. Across the European Union, 112 reaches emergency services and 116 111 reaches a child helpline in most countries. If you do not see your country below, call your local emergency number, contact a trusted adult, or search for your national child helpline.

RegionEmergencyChild or safeguarding helpline
European Union112Child helpline 116 111. Missing children 116 000. Both available in most EU countries.
France112 (police 17, fire 18, medical 15)119, children in danger, free, 24/7
Spain112Fundación ANAR on 116 111 or 900 20 20 10, free, 24/7
United Kingdom999 (101 non-emergency)Childline 0800 1111. NSPCC, for adults worried about a child, 0808 800 5000
United States911Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-422-4453
Canada911Kids Help Phone 1-800-668-6868
Australia000Kids Helpline 1800 55 1800

Add the equivalent contacts for any other countries with a significant audience, and confirm all numbers are current at each review. Numbers above were checked in June 2026.

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