Beauty

Transgender people exist and their lives are real

Dr Helen Webberley on Times Radio: the gender debate, with Jo Coburn, Times Radio

What people think

Transgender people are a theory, a trend, or a political position. The debate about them is abstract, something to be settled by experts arguing in studios, and the people at the centre of it are almost beside the point.

What is actually true

I have sat with these children and their families. I have listened to adults describe what it was like to grow up knowing something about themselves that the world around them refused to recognise. Whatever anyone says in a broadcast, those people do not stop existing when the microphone goes off. They were assigned a sex at birth that turned out not to be their gender identity, and that is not a debating position: it is simply what is true about them. The most powerful thing I could think to say in that moment was: come and meet them. Because once you have, the argument looks very different.

Whatever brought you here, I'm glad you came. Tell me what is on your mind and we can talk it through.

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