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Transitioning later in life

Everything on this site about transitioning later in life: 17 pieces in all.

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I always knew I was a boy. It took decades to live it.

He grew up in 1970s Britain reading C.S. Lewis by torchlight and longing to be one of the brothers, not the girl they all thought he was, and it…

Growing old as a trans woman in a care home

Rosa spent her eighties being called the wrong name by carers who did not know her story, until her daughter taped a photo and a note to the door so…

Transitioning as a trans man after raising your family

Otto raised three children as their mother before coming out as a trans man in his sixties, and now his grown children are learning what it means to…

Is it ever too late to transition? Maggie was seventy

Maggie buried it for fifty years and a marriage, and only after her wife died did she let herself, at seventy-one, finally become the woman she had…

Why do some people transition later in life?

Margaret was a grandfather of sixty-three, sitting in a kitchen at two in the morning with the screen brightness turned down, when she finally…

Coming out to elderly religious parents as a trans woman

Salma came out to her devout elderly parents in her forties, and discovered that love and faith can travel slowly and still arrive.

Realising you are trans in your thirties

Anaya spent her thirties explaining away a feeling she could never quite name, until a colleague's transition gave it one.

Should I transition?

Diane had known since the eighties, buried it through addiction and a rebuilt life, and then told her wife the truth over dinner on a Tuesday, and…

Every trans adult was once a trans child

Every trans adult was once a trans child. Many people grew up without the language, the visibility, or the acceptance that might have let them say it…

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