What persistent gender identity looks like in a child
Dr Helen Webberley on Heretics: the gender debate, with Andrew Gold, Heretics
Trans children come to it suddenly, as a phase or a passing whim, and parents are being asked to act on something that appeared out of nowhere one day.
What I see, again and again, is children who have been saying the same thing for as long as anyone can remember. Not a declaration that arrived one morning, but years of quiet, consistent, sometimes frustrated insistence: stop calling me a girl, I'm a boy. By the time a family is asking for help, the child has usually already been asking to be seen for most of their life. That persistence is not a symptom of something going wrong. It is the clearest signal we have that something is very right about what this child knows about themselves.
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