Use Google or your email. No password to remember. New here or coming back, it is the same: we make your account the first time.
We only receive your name and email address from Google. We never post anything on your account.
or use your email
Tap the link in that email and you will come straight back here, signed in. If the link opens in a different browser, type the code from the same email here instead.
Most accounts here have no password. Yours only does if you set one yourself: otherwise use the emailed code above, which is the normal way in.
Set a password, if you want one
You do not need a password to use this site: the code we email you is the normal way in, and it will keep working whatever you do here. If you would like a password as well, choose one now and you will be taken straight to your dashboard. If you did not mean to be here, just go back and sign in with a code instead.
Your tile is checked before it goes into the archive, usually within minutes, and a person reads it if anything needs a second look. Then it gets its number and your certificate, and we email you both.
That membership is not on sale yet, so nothing was charged. Everything you already have is unchanged.
Your age
We have to check you are 18 or over before we can take a
payment. We do not keep your date of birth: we work out the answer and drop it.
We cannot take a payment from you yet.
That is the only thing this changes. Your account stays exactly as it is,
Sammy is still here whenever you want to talk, and everything you can read
on this site stays free and always will be.
Your conversations stay yours. Every chat with Sammy, on the web and in Telegram, lives only on your account. We never share them with anyone, and we never use them to train a model. You can read any one back here, and you can delete any one of them. A delete is permanent: once it is gone from this page, it is gone everywhere.
Saved conversations come with membership
Sammy remembers you between visits whichever membership you are on, Free included. Keeping a readable record of each conversation is what membership adds, so there is nothing to read back or delete here yet. As a member, every conversation is saved privately to your account, only ever visible to you, and yours to read or delete whenever you like.
Your name, email and password. Saving the email sends a confirmation link to the new address. Changing the name updates Sammy's greeting next time you load a page.
Confirmed as 18 or over. We did not keep your date of birth.
We cannot take a payment from you yet.
That is the only thing this changes. Your account stays exactly as it is,
Sammy is still here whenever you want to talk, and everything you can read
on this site stays free and always will be.
Your account, your call. Anything you tell Sammy here, and anything Sammy picks up while you chat, lives only on your account. We never share it with anyone, and we never use it to train a model. You can pause memory, edit any line, or wipe everything in one click.
Remember me between visits
If you say Yes, Sammy keeps what you write below and what comes up in our chats, so you don't have to start from scratch each time. If you say No, Sammy chats with you in the moment and remembers nothing once the conversation ends. You can change this any time.
About yourself
Tell Sammy whatever you would like Sammy to remember about you. Your family, the people you love, where you are in your journey, anything that helps Sammy be more useful when you talk.
What Sammy holds about you
A short summary, in plain English, of what Sammy currently knows: what you have told Sammy about yourself and what has come up in conversation. This is the picture Sammy carries into your next chat. Refresh it any time to see what has changed.
What Sammy has picked up
Things Sammy has noticed across your conversations. These help Sammy give you better, more personal answers. Anything you no longer want Sammy to remember, just delete it.
Forget everything
Wipe what you wrote above, the summary, and every line Sammy has picked up. Memory is also paused so nothing new is stored until you turn it back on. There is no undo: once it is gone from here, it is gone everywhere.
Memory comes with every account
Sammy keeps what you share about yourself and what you have talked through, only ever on your account, so you do not have to start from scratch every time. That is true whichever membership you are on, Free included.
A quiet, notify-only Telegram channel, open to everyone. More community spaces are on the way.
Notify
Open to everyone
A quiet, notify-only channel. New content, news, policy reviews and video clips land here the moment it goes out, with no chatter, no noise, just the work as it happens.
A slower, private space for Companion members is on the way.
Don't have Telegram yet? It is a free messaging app.
Sammy on Telegram
Open Sammy in Telegram for one-tap conversations on your phone. Your Telegram messages will be linked to your membership, so Sammy remembers you between visits.
If that button does not open, your subscription may be billed
somewhere we cannot see from here, most often a paid Substack
subscription, which is cancelled in your Substack account settings.
Either way you are not stuck: email
media@helenwebberley.com
and we will cancel it for you and confirm.
Documents open with membership
Upload a letter from your GP, a complaint, a school policy, an HR document, anything you would like Sammy to read alongside you. Sammy helps you understand what is being said and think through what to do next. On Companion, Sammy will also review it against the law and draft a careful reply. Personal details (names, addresses, NHS numbers) are stripped before anything reaches Sammy, and documents stay private to your account.
Your documents stay yours. Personal details like names, addresses and NHS numbers are stripped out before anything reaches Sammy, so the words Sammy reads are redacted. Documents are private to your account, never shared and never used to train a model. Delete any one whenever you like.
Before your first upload
Documents are processed to redact personal details, then read by Sammy to help you. They stay private to your account. Please confirm you are happy to upload a document on this basis.
Add a document
PDF, Word, plain text, or a photo of a letter (JPEG or PNG), up to 20MB. It takes a moment to process before Sammy can read it.
Tip: open a document and ask Sammy anything about it. Review against the law and one-click drafting (draft a reply, traffic-light a policy, questions for your GP) open with Companion.
Your documents
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Images and voice : coming soon
Show Sammy a photo of yourself for kind, specific feedback on hair, makeup, clothes, posture : transition mentoring at your own pace. Voice coaching is part of this too: record a short clip and Sammy will guide you through pitch, breath, resonance and pace until the voice you hear is the voice that is yours. Photos and recordings stay private to your account, and are not used to train any model.
Thanks. I'll let you know when this opens.
You have unsubscribed from non-essential emails. You will still get account, billing and security messages, because we have to. Change your mind any time below.
Choose what lands in your inbox. We always send account, billing and security messages, but the rest is up to you.
Welcomes, milestones and the occasional check-in
First-week notes from Sammy, a one-month thank-you, a year-on note, and the very occasional rejoin invite if your subscription ends. No more than a handful a year.
News and editorial
When something is published or a policy review goes out, you hear about it. Off by default for now: we will only turn this on when there is something worth sending.
Stop everything non-essential
One switch. Account, billing and security emails still arrive, because we have to send those. Everything else stops.
Your conversations with Sammy
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If you are in danger, contact your local emergency services, or find support near you at
helenwebberley.com/heretohelp.
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