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Trans creators, algorithms, and staying visible online

Trans creators face a specific set of challenges online: algorithmic systems that flag or suppress gender-diverse content, content moderation…

This is your life: being visible and proud as a trans person

Being trans is not a footnote to your life. Pride does not require you to have reached a particular stage, passed any threshold, or earned the right…

Trans joy: share your stories this World Laughter Day

Trans joy is real, ordinary, and worth celebrating. World Laughter Day is a chance to share the funny, tender, human stories from trans lives and…

Is hostility towards trans people just women's rights groups protecting women?

Women's safety, dignity and privacy matter. So do the safety, dignity and rights of trans people. The answer is to look at each setting honestly,…

When I say this hurts trans people, what do I actually mean?

When I say these words hurt, I am not talking about someone feeling offended. The surveys document measurable patterns: people hiding who they are at…

Sex Matters lose their case against police trans search guidance

Sex Matters brought a judicial review challenging police guidance that allowed trans detainees to consent to being strip-searched by an officer…

Trans men are invisible, and that invisibility costs lives

Trans men are largely invisible in public life because they were socialised to stay quiet, and because successful transitions mean they are rarely…

Discomfort about trans people in single-sex spaces

Discomfort about trans people in single-sex spaces is a genuine feeling worth taking seriously, but it is not the same as evidence of harm. Trans…

Misgendering, deadnaming and everyday disrespect

Misgendering means using the wrong pronouns or gender for someone, and deadnaming means using the name they were given at birth after they have asked…

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Passing as your real gender

She hadn't slept the night before, convinced that walking into a restaurant would give her away. Then the waitress asked what she could get the…

Travelling while trans: the cost of getting there

A trans woman travels alone for the first time on a new passport and discovers that the planning was the point all along.

An ordinary good day as a trans person

Koa had no crisis to report on a Saturday morning, just coffee, a friend who said their name right, and a body that finally felt like their own.

Going to the gym when you're trans

A trans person navigates the quiet dread of leisure-centre changing rooms, develops their strategies, and reaches the ordinary Tuesday when it stops…

Being trans and disabled: navigating two systems

A young wheelchair user and their carer find that gender services and disability services each act as if the other does not exist, until one small…

When a stranger gets your gender right

A trans person orders a coffee, hears one word from a stranger, and finds the world has quietly rearranged itself around who they really are.

Using public toilets as a trans person

A trans woman learns to navigate the daily calculation of which door to push open, and discovers that the law and lived reality rarely feel the same.

Being a trans parent at the school gate

Amara dreaded her first school run as herself, until a stranger's offhand compliment about her coat changed everything about the morning.

Coming out as trans at work after twenty years

Rachel had rehearsed the conversation for months, at three in the morning, alone. What she could not have rehearsed was how ordinary it would turn…

Stepping outside as yourself for the first time

Dani stood at her front door for eleven minutes before she finally stepped outside as herself, and what she found on the other side was sunshine, a…

What it feels like to be free of unwanted body bits!

Marco had avoided swimming for a decade until top surgery gave him back something he hadn't dared name as lost.

Transitioning when the whole town knows your face

The local figure everyone knew by sight transitions in a small town with no place to hide, weathers the gossip, and finds the community stretches…

Growing old as a trans woman in a care home

Rosa spent her eighties being called the wrong name by carers who did not know her story, until her daughter taped a photo and a note to the door so…

Going home after transition

Kwame dreaded going back to the town that knew him before he transitioned, but found that some of the people he feared most simply met him as himself.

Dating after you transition: when to tell and how

Diego had rehearsed the disclosure conversation a hundred times before he finally had it, and the answer he got changed how he thought about dating…

The small bodily changes of transition

A trans woman notices her skin is different, her scent has shifted, and the mirror is finally, tentatively, starting to show her the person she has…

Learning to love your voice in transition

Mei spent months relearning her voice in secret, until one Tuesday phone call made her realise the smallest reclamations land the hardest.

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Vancouver band cancels Charlottetown show after venue denied transgender member washroom access

Vancouver punk band Rougaroux cancelled their Charlottetown show at the Sportsman's Club after a bartender put up a handwritten 'ladies only' sign in…

The trans Handy Ma'am helps where it matters most – at home

Mercury Stardust, known online as The Trans Handy Ma'am, is a TikTok star, New York Times best-selling author, and former maintenance technician who…

Kai Schreiber walks Thom Browne as her parents cheer from the front row

Kai Schreiber, 17-year-old transgender model and daughter of Naomi Watts and Liev Schreiber, walked the Thom Browne spring/summer 2027 show at New…

A spa, a Supreme Court petition, and what it costs a woman to wash

Olympus Spa in Washington State has petitioned the US Supreme Court to allow it to exclude transgender women who have not had surgery from its…

Aurora Alvarez-Granados Ramírez is reimagining travel in Central America

Aurora Alvarez-Granados Ramírez is a transgender tour guide leading LGBTQIA+-aware journeys across Central America for Intrepid and independently.…

Pennsylvania's first openly transgender mayor reflects on first months in office: 'We're all neighbors here'

At a moment when trans people are being framed as a threat to public life, Erica Deuso is simply running public life. Downingtown's mayor,…

World's only transgender district unveils historic San Francisco mural for Pride

San Francisco's Transgender District, the world's only officially recognised community of its kind, has unveiled its first exterior mural on the 64…

Qween Jean makes history as first openly transgender Tony winner

Qween Jean, costume designer for Cats: The Jellicle Ball, became the first openly transgender person to win a Tony Award in the ceremony's 79-year…

Hampstead Heath ponds stay trans-inclusive after public backs existing rules

Hampstead Heath's bathing ponds will remain trans-inclusive after a public consultation backed the existing policy. The City of London Corporation…

What communities actually think about inclusion

When you ask the people who use a space what they want, you often get very different answers than the ones being argued about in headlines.

2025: The real news was ordinary people showing up

Beyond the headlines, the true story of 2025 was people living authentically and bravely in their everyday lives.

Changing rooms and trans inclusion: beyond the surface

Exploring why changing room concerns dominate trans inclusion debates and what the evidence actually shows.

'Cyclone': the Hong Kong indie that kept Tony Leung awake

Cyclone is a Hong Kong independent film directed by Philip Yung, co-written with trans activist Annabelle Lee Ka-yee, that follows Chiu Fung, a trans…

'Abuse' and 'intimidation' described as city approves trans rights plan

Oxford City Council voted on 5 October to protect the rights, dignity and privacy of trans and non-binary residents to the maximum extent permitted…

Protesters clash again outside Portland's The Sports Bra

Conservative protesters gathered outside The Sports Bra, a women's sports bar in Portland, after staff asked customers displaying anti-trans…

A new trans tipping point

The 2010s brought a genuine shift in how trans people appeared on screen and in public life, but that progress has gone sharply into reverse. Trans…

Siobhan Kirchstein was reported for cleaning a bathroom. Her community responded.

Siobhan Kirchstein, a transgender custodian at the University of Kansas, received a formal warning after someone reported her for using the women's…

NYC must face lawsuit over treatment of transgender woman in shelter system

A Manhattan court has ruled that New York City must face a lawsuit brought by a transgender woman who alleges she was repeatedly placed in men's…

Idaho's bathroom ban is law, but no one knows how to enforce it

Idaho's House Bill 752 criminalises trans people using bathrooms that match their gender, but enforcement is deeply unclear. Police chiefs testified…

Inside India's largest transgender festival

Every year in Koovagam, a village in Tamil Nadu, thousands of transgender women gather for one of the world's largest transgender festivals. For two…

Dee Allum on football, surgery, and a year for both

Comedian Dee Allum is bringing her new Edinburgh Fringe hour Raumdeuter to Pleasance Courtyard, weaving together the World Cup and transgender…

Gender transition is a personal journey

Gender transition belongs to the person living it, and there is no single right way to do it. Lynne Young began hers on the cusp of her 70s and says…

AB Hernandez wins two CIF titles and doesn't care about the protesters

AB Hernandez, a transgender high school athlete from Jurupa Valley, California, won the high jump and triple jump at the CIF State Track and Field…

Briel and Adam Adams-Wheatley celebrate five years of love

In a news cycle full of courtrooms and bans, Briel and Adam Adams-Wheatley threw a backyard wedding in Utah to mark five years of marriage and…

Idaho's bathroom ban blocked by a judge who asked the right question

A federal judge blocked most of Idaho's House Bill 752 days before it was due to take effect, finding it likely unconstitutional because its…

Piecing together the legal fight for trans rights

The Good Law Project is building a coordinated series of legal challenges to protect trans rights in the UK, covering workplace toilets, gym access,…

Worcester takes to the streets against EHRC guidance

Protesters gathered in Worcester on 14 June 2025 outside the Guildhall to oppose the EHRC's draft guidance on single-sex spaces, which follows the…

Bristol takes to the streets to resist the EHRC

Trans people and allies gathered on College Green in Bristol to protest EHRC guidance that excludes trans men and women from single-sex spaces. The…

Hampstead Heath ponds vote to stay trans-inclusive

The City of London Corporation has voted to keep the Hampstead Heath ponds trans-inclusive following a public consultation of 38,000 people, 86 per…

Haters want to kick trans people out of city swimming holes. Locals are saying no.

The City of London Corporation has voted to keep the Hampstead Heath bathing ponds trans-inclusive, after more than 38,000 people responded to a…

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